STEPHANIE NIXON

BACKGROUND: Stephanie, 23, has lived in Killingworth her entire life. She attended Haddam-Killingworth High School, graduated from there in 2014 and gained her degree in allied health science from the University of Connecticut after spending one semester of her freshman year at Florida Gulf Coast University. She has been accepted into UConn’s accelerated nursing school and will begin classes in January, 2020.

Q: Why did you decide on becoming on EMT?

NIXON: I wanted go to PA (Physician’s Assistant) school, so that’s what got me into EMT. You need a lot of experience to get into PA school. I decided that I love emergency medicine, and I’ve always wanted to work in the ER. So I figured becoming an EMT would be the best stepping stone … and I knew a number of people who were doing that. So I took my classes at Middlesex (Community College), and I really, really loved them. One of our classmates was diabetic, and she collapsed in the class. So we actually were first responders at the beginning. Basically, from that moment on I knew this is what I wanted to do.

Q: But you’re headed off to UConn next year?

NIXON: In this journey I actually  decided that nursing was a better position for me so I got accepted into UConn’s accelerated nursing school, starting in January. So that’s going to be a year, but I’ll get my second bachelor’s (degree), and it will be in nursing.

Q: So they’re going to lose you here?

NIXON: For a little bit. But after that I’ll be coming back. I want to continue to do it.

Q:: What’s the best part of being an EMT?

NIXON: Just being there for people in their scariest moments. I’ve always worked with customers. I was in retail, and I always liked being helpful. But it never felt like it was enough. Whereas here in people’s most vulnerable moments, you’re there to help them, offer some comfort and do the best work you can for people in their most important moments.

Q: And the most challenging part?

NIXON: Sometimes the overnights are hard because it’s hard to get up. But once you’re up you’re ready to go.

Q: Would you recommend it to others?

NIXON: Definitely. It’s great experience if you want to go into the medical field. You get first-hand experience, and, honestly, you help change lives for the better.

Q: Is there anything unique about the KAA that drew you here?

NIXON: The school system is what gave me my strong academics and my love for medicine. I remember my anatomy class is what made me fall in love with the human body and how it works. And we are such a small town. Everybody knows each other. So it feels good that I can help give back to a community that helped raise me.

JORDAN WHITE

BACKGROUND: Jordan, 20, recently became an EMT after taking a break from her studies at the University of Connecticut where she is majoring in animal science. She grew up in Deep River, attended Valley Regional High School and is one of two girls in her family. She has a younger sister currently going to Valley.

Q: You’re from Deep River, yet you’re working with the Killingworth Ambulance Association. Why?

WHITE: I’ve known Mike and Marguerite (Haaga, members of the KAA board of directors and EMT instructors) for awhile, and there’s a young woman who used to work here who brought me here. She’s part of the reason why I’m doing this. Plus, it’s pretty convenient. It’s close to where I live.

Q: Why did you want to become an EMT?

WHITE: Basically just to help people. I’ve always looked up to people who are emergency responders and put other people first.

Q: Was there an incident or first-hand experience that influenced you?

WHITE: A couple of years ago my Mom passed out at her house, and we had no idea why. She ended up having a heart issue, and the EMTs that came were actually people we knew. They were very quick. They were very fast to respond. And they got her to the hospital as quickly as they could. That’s the reason.

Q: Any advice for persons interested in becoming EMTs?

WHITE: Study hard. The course is long, but if it’s something you think you want to do it’s worth it to go through the classes. There are a lot of great people here.

Q: Is this something you envision doing indefinitely?

WHITE: I think so, yeah. I obviously haven’t had a ton of experience yet, but once I get out there I feel I’m definitely going to love it.

LISA BARBOUR

BACKGROUND: Lisa grew up in Madison, where she raised her two children, now 37 and 36 years of age. She attended Daniel Hand High School and Post College in Waterbury and, after serving as a legal assistant, recently was named Clinton’s assistant town clerk. Lisa is one of four EMTs who recently joined the KAA after passing exams this winter.

Q: What made you decide to be an EMT at this stage of your life?

BARBOUR: I’ve always wanted to learn the EMT skills. My kids are grown, and now I want to be able to give back to the community. For instance, I’ve volunteered in hospice. I just like it. I really love helping people, and If I can help somebody get out of bad situation or just be there to assist people in everyday life. That was my main goal.

Q: But you were raised in Madison. So why Killingworth?

BARBOUR: One, they were offering a class. And, two, I heard this class is a very good one and that the instructors were very well versed.

Q: The latest class of EMTs here is all female … of a variety of ages … and of a variety of backgrounds. That’s a little bit unusual.

BARBOUR: It was kind of unique that it was all females. Normally, when you think of EMTs, and you see the shows on TV, it’s mostly male. Because they figure females can’t, maybe, lift as much or can’t function as well physically as a male.

Q: But you made it after months of instruction and a challenging exam.

BARBOUR: It was definitely challenging. I called my kids and told them I was taking the class. And some nights I would call them and say, ‘Why am I doing this again?’ Just because I’ve been out of school so long and that coming back and doing this was difficult. It’s like you’re learning all over again after being out of school.

“Stop the Bleed” classes return

The Killingworth Ambulance Association renews its “Stop the Bleed” classes this spring, with three scheduled within the next two months.

The first will be held Tuesday, March 26, at the Emergency Operations Center, next to the Killingworth Town Hall, and is scheduled to begin at 7 p.m. The course will include participants from CPR groups and the Community Emergency Response Team (CERT).

A second instruction is scheduled for Tuesday, April, 16, at 7 p.m. at the KAA building on Route 81, while a third will occur on Saturday, May 11, at the same address. That will begin at 9 a.m.

All classes are open to the public.

“Stop the Bleed” is a nationwide awareness campaign and call to action that was launched in 2015 by the White House and Department of Homeland Security. It is designed to empower bystanders with the training to deal with traumatic events and emergency bleeding situations before emergency help arrives.

Killingworth two years ago became the first town in Connecticut to have its citizens certified in the program when 19 persons completed a one-hour course. Since then, the KAA has offered “Stop the Bleed” instruction to several hundred local citizens.

For more information, please contact the KAA at (860) 663-2450.

Ambulance in minor mishap; Clinton loans replacement


The Killingworth ambulance earlier this week was involved in a minor motor vehicle accident. Fortunately, there were no serious injuries, but the ambulance is temporarily out of service.

In the meantime, the Killingworth Ambulance Association (KAA) will operate a vehicle it acquired on loan Thursday from the Clinton Ambulance Service.

“Many thanks to Clinton Ambulance,” said KAA president Dan O’Sullivan.

Shortly after Killingworth’s ambulance was incapacitated, Valley Shore — the area dispatch service — was immediately notified, and all ambulance calls were then covered through the Valley Shore mutual aid association that Killingworth has with neighboring towns.

Killingworth has been continuously covered with respect to ambulance services.

“We would like to thank those surrounding ambulance services that have been taking care of our citizens in the interim,” said O’Sullivan.

KAA roof repaired

Thanks to James Fretz, the Killingworth Ambulance Association’s Mr. Fix-It, for repairing the roof at the KAA’s headquarters earlier this month.

Apparently, someone at the nearby Killingworth Volunteer Fire Company noticed a strip of shingles missing above the ambulance bay and contacted the KAA … which, in turn, contacted James to make the necessary repairs.

He completed the task in two hours.

Fretz’s work is everywhere at the KAA, sometimes in places where the public can’t see. He’s been involved in the asphalting of the parking lot, painting of the headquarters’ first floor, upgrading of the building’s heat and air-conditioning, resurfacing of the floor in the ambulance bay, improving the outdoor lighting and completion of all of the signage. 

James and his wife, Mary Robbenhaar-Fretz, are members of the KAA’s board of directors, with Mary recently qualifying to become an EMT.

After 15 years, KAA’s Pat Miller steps down as EMT

Every December the Killingworth Ambulance Association holds its annual Christmas party at the home of a board member, and this year was supposed to be no different.

And it wasn’t. Only, it was, too.

Yes, a board member hosted it. And, yes, EMTs and others on the board were there, as they have been for years. But it was more than a Christmas party. It was also a retirement party for former board member Pat Miller.

Miller announced that she is quitting as an EMT after serving Killingworth the past 15 years – many of which were spent on call Tuesday evenings, with Miller sleeping on an air mattress at the association’s Route 81 headquarters.

“There are a lot of factors,” she said, “that came together that make this the right time.”

One is that she must renew her certification at the end ofthe calendar year. Another is that, since moving to Madison several years ago, it’s become increasingly difficult for her to spend weekday evenings at the KAA building. And, third, she’s more focused on life after retirement from her job as a pharmacist – something she envisions happening within the next two years.

“I feel I’ve done my time,” said Miller. “I’m getting older,and it’s time for newer blood to come along and step up to the plate … Patients are getting larger and larger, and my back is getting older and older. I don’t want to start my retirement with a major back injury.”

But that doesn’t mean that Miller is leaving the KAA or Killingworth. She is not. She intends to continue teaching CPR courses and monitoring ambulance inventory for the association. She simply is retiring as an EMT – unfortunately, at a time when the KAA is in need of volunteers.

“What am I going to miss?” she said. “Certainly the people. People ask if you like what you do as an EMT, and I don’t like seeing people in pain and suffering. But it gives you great satisfaction to know that you might be able to help them on their worst day and make it a little easier on them and their families.

“I’ll miss that because Killingworth is such a big-hearted community. It makes it easy to want to give.”

And Miller has given a considerable amount of her adult life to Killingworth. A member of the KAA’s board of directors for over two decades, she was a past president, vice president and secretary. After moving to Madison, she resigned from the board but continued as an EMT – an experience she said she won’t forget.

Apparently, neither will others.

“When my retirement was announced,” Miller said, “one of the soon-to-be EMTs, someone who’s taking the (current EMT) course, Mary Robbenhaar-Fretz (a board member) came up to me and said, ‘Wow, Pat, you’ve been doing Tuesday nights here for a long time.’ And I said, ‘Yeah, I have. But what made you remember that?’ And she said, ‘Because you transported my father on a Tuesday night. And he passed away three-to-four days later. You were such a comfort to us then.’ ”

Miller’s last day as an EMT is Monday, Dec. 31. And while she’s not sure how she will recognize the event she is certain that with a New Year she begins a new life.

“Being an EMT certainly is a meaningful way to give back to your community,” she said, “which I think everyone has an obligation to do in one form or another. Certainly, it has its downsides. Nobody wants to be called out of bed at 2 in the morning. But you do it because you know one of your peers – one of your colleagues, perhaps – needs help.

“Am I glad I did it? I don’t have to think a second about that. It’s an unqualified yes. I have no regrets at all. And I do feel I’ve helped a lot of people over the years, which gives you a great deal of satisfaction. It’s been a wonderful experience.”

First-person account: When I learned the value of CPR, EMTs to all of us

By Clark Judge

It’s not just the Killingworth Ambulance Association that needs more EMTs. It’s the people of Killingworth itself.

And I just discovered why.

Were it not for an EMT … in the right place at the right time … I might have lost my 68-year-old brother. He suffered cardiac arrest while working out one morning and, lucky for him … and for all those close to him … there was an EMT there to help save his life.

His name is Adam (he asked that I not use his last name), and he’s not from Killingworth. He lives in Chicago, and it was there … at a downtown athletic club … that he put his training into practice by helping to revive a clinically dead patient – my brother — through CPR and the use of an AED.

It really doesn’t matter where this happened. What matters is that it happened … period.

Adam knew what to do when others did not, and he knew what to do when there was little or no margin for error. Essentially, he knew what to do when a life was in peril because he’d been trained. As a sophomore at the University of Pennsylvania he worked as an EMT with the on-campus Medical Emergency Response Team (MERT).

“I was at the gym on the machine directly in front of the patient,” Adam recalled in an e-mail, “doing my normal cardio while watching some Netflix with my earbuds in. Out of nowhere a woman came running up to the front of my machine, so I took my earbuds out. She frantically asked if I worked in health care because I happened to be wearing a T-shirt with the logo of a hospital, (and she) alerted me to the fact that there was a medical emergency directly behind me. I had no idea.”

Adam turned to see three women performing CPR on my brother. One, he said, was applying chest compressions. Another was administering breaths. And the third was monitoring the AED. CPR was undertaken, he said, for approximately 10 minutes before Advanced Life Support arrived to whisk my brother away to nearby Northwestern Hospital.

In those 10 minutes, Adam said, two shocks were advised and administered with the AED. I later learned that my brother’s heart had stopped for four minutes.

“The most important lesson from becoming an EMT,” Adam said, “was to stay calm and follow your training. There were a lot of people, onlookers and drama in the situation to be caught up in, and it was important to follow protocols.”

My brother was unresponsive for two-and-half days but opened his eyes that weekend and was taken off a respirator within 48 hours. His recovery was so immediate, so complete and so remarkable that he was sent home within a week-and-a-half and today contemplates returning to work in January.

All of that was communicated to Adam, who, understandably, was relieved.

“During the incident,” he said, “I was emotionally turned off and focusing on protocol. However, for the rest of the week I was quite shaken from the experience. It’s one thing to be an EMT when you signed up for a shift to be an EMT; it’s another to have a life-threatening emergency come up unexpected in your everyday life.

“I was very lucky to learn the patient made a full recovery (by hearing) through a random connection of a friend-of-a-friend. Otherwise, I would still be left wondering. I’m grateful I spent all that time learning to be an EMT.”

So are we.

What I learned in that week I spent in Chicago and what I gathered afterward underscored the importance of knowing CPR and the critical roles that our volunteers serve when they act as EMTs. In fact, when I returned to Killingworth, I ran into Mike Haaga, who leads EMT classes at the Ambulance Association with his wife, Marguerite, and notified him that my wife and I were interested in taking a CPR course.

I told him it was a voluntary decision, but I know better. It’s not. Adam made me do it.

Knowing what he and others did that morning in Chicago convinced me that maybe, just maybe, I could do the same one day. If nothing else, it would at least serve to prepare me if I ever were faced with a similar situation.

“CPR is incredibly easy,” Adam said. “But the reality is: It’s somewhat of a burden to find the time and the money to go to a CPR class. However, I encourage everyone to find that time.

“I trained to be an EMT so I could work dedicated shifts at my college – responding to 911 calls during my shift. I never anticipated or expected to use my training outside of those set shifts. Odds are that you will never be in a situation where someone goes into cardiac arrest near you, but it is definitely worth taking a CPR class just in case. Because a life can be on the line.”

A life already was.

Clifton Top Responder for 2017-18

Mark Clifton was honored as the Killingworth Ambulance Association’s Top Responder of the Year at the KAA’s annual banquet held earlier this month.

A former KAA board president who was named to the Killingworth Hall of Fame this year, Clifton has been an EMT since 1983 and was involved in 106 calls from Nov. 17, 2017 to Oct. 18, 2018. Jess Accetta was recognized as the second Top Responder of the Year, while Bruce Bowman was third.

The banquet is held annually to thank the many people who help make the KAA effective throughout the year, a list that includes EMTs, EMRs, the KAA board of directors, town officials and officials from EMS organizations in surrounding towns.

All are necessary for the KAA to deliver the services so critical to residents of  Killingworth.

Also honored were the instructors who put on CPR and “Stop the Bleed” courses, instruction that is essential to position citizens with the ability and know-how to deliver immediate life-saving help while EMS assistance is on the way.

The KAA’s chief of service, Mike Haaga, made the presentations.

To learn more about times, places and dates of courses offered by the KAA, please check this website or call us at (860) 663-2450.

“Stop the Bleed” back this fall

The Killingworth Ambulance Association’s “Stop the Bleed” program is continuing this fall, with its latest class at the Haddam-Killingworth High School on Wednesday, Oct. 23.

The course, sponsored by the KAA since last year, has been a success, with the Ambulance Association making presentations at various local locations — including schools, the KAA itself, the Killingworth Volunteer Fire Company, the Killingworth Library and St. Lawrence Church.

“The biggest reason for taking the training,” said KAA board member Don McDougal, who helps with the instruction, “is the same reason the public should take the CPR/AED and First Aid courses: Because you may save a life … maybe even a loved one.

“All you have to do is watch the 6 o’clock news to know that we live in a dangerous world. It seems almost every day there are shootings across the country or accidents with fatalities. But with an hour’s training you may be able to save a life. So why not?”

It’s a good question.

“Stop the Bleed” is a national campaign launched in 2015 by the White House and Department of Homeland Security to inform and instruct persons how to deal with emergency bleeding situations an to provide them with the tools to save lives.

Killingworth was Connecticut’s first community to have its residents certified in the “Stop the Bleed” program, with 19 persons — most of whom were KAA board members of EMTs — completing the one-hour course in July, 2017.

Local classes have been led by a Yale-New Haven Health emergency medical technician and member of the Killingworth Ambulance Association’s board of directors, as well as other KAA board members.